JoniMac is doing well, he has gained weight, had his teeth done, feet done, and is currently eating his way out of Calm wood. What is the go with this freakin timber chewing?? Just about ready for me to ride so this is going to happen on Tuesday, Di will give me a lesson on my boy and we will see how he goes, he has had a rider on and even tho Jen is a light weight compared to me, he was very quiet and careful with her and did well. Di has also been on him and done some work with him as well as putting in consistent ground work with the boy.

All we need is some nice weather.

I am still not dealing with losing Rock very well, it is so difficult for me to let him go, I think I have done so to a certain extent but I have really missed his kind nature and is little quirks that were so endearing of the boy.

With love and Respect Rocky

Rocky was in my life for such a short time, it makes you wonder what the deal was, why his star shone so brightly but so briefly in my life. I can not answer that but I do know that he had a huge inpact in my life, and much for the better. Taking Rocky on made me face a lot of issue's in my life that I had been ignoring for way too long. Firstly my weight and fitness level, this is a biggy. Since a child I was always very active, riding, walking, working, I even jogged two hours every day when working in the city around the Domain. Alas since having my tonsils out and discovering the taste of food, a young family, two babies and two miscarriages I pounded on the weight, I don't blame anyone but myself. Now as a 'mature lady' (hate that term) I am fat and unfit.

I know that the people in my life wanted to see me get fitter, happier and enjoy my later child free years. In the meantime I am popping anti-depressants and blood pressure tablets and sitting around on my arse eating chocolate. Feeling sorry for myself as my children move out of home and decidedly need me less. Hubby interstate with work more often than not and a very empty life here at home for me. The good part of course are my work and my friends but still something was missing, something was just not fulfilling some need I had.

Enter Rocky, this big roman nose standy took my heart the minute I saw his pic on Horse yard. What a stunning boy, big, I needed big, bold, gorgeous boy. I could not wait to meet him.

When I did finally get down to see him over Easter weekend 2010, I knew that I had to have him, was he right for me? Maybe, maybe not, here I am a raw novice rider again entering riding in my late 40's and taking on a green broken, big, bold athlete of a horse. Crazy stuff really.

But in my heart I knew that Rocky and I would get along and that he was coming home with me.

I had him for such a short 6 months, with lots of ups and downs, mostly me falling down. Hahahaha. No, I came off once, but it wasn't till I finally found Di Holden from Calmwood that I started to understand Rocky and understand how to get myself riding again and I was even becoming confident on Rocky. He was such a big goof head, loveable and cheeky. His spirit still lives with me every day and I now know why he was in my life.

It was to introduce me to some really wonderful people. He got me up off my butt, I have had to walk heaps, move, stretch, balance, sweat, be exhausted and sore, ache all over but still carry on

and all this I did happily because it wasn't a case of slogging my brains out in a gym, it wasn't doing something so boring and repetative that I wanted to shoot myself, it was a joy of a horse, an animal that was entirely dependant on me getting up off my arse and tending to his needs. I had to work to pay for the things he needed, my lessons, feed, hoof care, teeth, vet, agistment etc. So even work took on a new light. I had purpose in my life again. For this Rocky I thank you, with love and respect my beautiful boy, thankyou for being part of my life and opening a whole world of wonder and love and joy to my life. I will forever be gratefull, and till we meet again, remember you were loved by alot of people.

Sad Loss

I can not believe it but on Saturday the 2nd of October, the long weekend here in Sydney, I lost my most beautiful Rocky to a brown snake bite.

These pics are some I took the week before he died, he was happily cropping grass with JoniMac, checking out the reno on the horse float and generally being the fabulous horse he was.

I am so glad I spent the day just being around him that day, and taking photo's of them both, JoniMac was so distressed when we lost Rocky that I have sent him out to Calm wood to be cared for by Di and for him to get some lessons in being a ridden horse. I had intended to do this anyway, hence the 2 weeks work in a factory I had just done to have the money for the training. The money however, went to the vet bill, it cost me 1100.00 to put Rocky to sleep.

RIP MY BEAUTIFUL BOY I WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU

Flying Horses

Wow doesnt time fly when you are playing with horses??

It has been a long time since updating all the coming and goings at Kellyville and since Huelio left I am very happy to announce that he has found a new home with Jeff and Hayley. He is doing wonderfully because he is finally at a place that has activity going on all the time and a herd of horses for him to sort out. Jeff is a standie fan like me and was interested in Rock but I beat it to the punch by putting down a deposit on Rocky before he could get out and see him.
I really think that Huelio is a perfect horse for Jeff, and Jeff agrees saying that Huelio is wonderful.

Since the last post I have had Rocky out at a riding and training centre with the amazing Di Holden. She spent a concentrated 2 weeks working with Rocky and I and teaching us how to get on and work together, for Rocky to learn how to be a riden horse and for me to gain more confidence after my fall from him.
It all worked very well and I am really keen to keep up the lesson's with Di. This is now all going to happen as planned as I have purchased a float, well one that needed some work, a new floor but as Tony is so clever he is able to replace this himself keeping the cost down to close to my original budget.

In the meantime while Rocky was out at Calmwood, I brought up another horse from Karleigh, JoniMac, aka Johnny, aka Fonzie. A lovely black/brown 11 year old standie with a good racing record to his name. JoniMac is very sensitive, gentle and smart, we absolutely love him. He has proved to be everything we were wanting in a second horse, he is a thinker, and not at all pushy so that Dad is able to handle him easily, even to the point of taking his rug off for me.
A short lunge session proved that JM has nice looks, almost thorobred like in his features, a lovely movement and easy, easy to work with. Show him once and he has it, and tries like crazy to get it right the first time. If he is going to be like this in future I think a riding career, maybe even dressage might be his thing.

So I have two very different horses. Two that suit us all very nicely and they will not be going anywhere, apart from Di's for more lessons and I hope to repeat the success I have had with Rocky with JoniMac, I can not wait to get started.

Photos to come.

Bye Huels, you will be missed by me

I love Huelio, he was not only a lovely boy, sweet as anything, bossy and opinionated but he was fun fun fun to ride, I felt really safe on him. He is just a real 'been there, done that' sort of horse. I think I could have come along very quickly in my riding ability if I had been able to keep him.

One huge and insurmountable problem for my Dad was that Huelio went visiting neighbours on a regular basis, then stood at the fence waiting to be let back in. He could get out but couldn't get back in. He liked visiting the young boys, one down the back of the property and one two doors along, all gained by safe paddocks but as he was creating a problem for Dad I had to make a decision. Take him back to Karleigh or get an electric fence.

Well with Dad, really and truly over it all, and Tony willing to buy an electric fence and repair the old fences, but so unwell that I really hated to add yet another day of yakka to his list, I reluctantly decided that the best thing was for Huels to go back to his 'herd'.

Rocky is missing him, he is seeking out more attention from his people. Will I seek out another horse? Maybe, I do have my eye on one little man atm, we will see how the land lays for the moment, not push my luck, but with fingers crossed I may be able to give another horse a home that will love him to pieces.

KISS Clinic at Bargo

We had a wonderful day out at Bargo with Pieta from Kalimbah standardbreds who demonstrated her methods of natural horsemanship to safely mount and ride a young standie off the track. Shadow is bound for a bright future and he was a lovely boy to work with, I had a little hands on work with him myself and was delighted at his calm response to flexing and finding a safe place with an on the ground one rein stop, for want of a better description.

Once the horse is comfortable in this on ground technique it is a safe place for him during a disturbing moment under saddle. By bringing his head around to his shoulder, calmly and gently, giving him a nice pat and telling him what a good boy he is, reinforces that under saddle this position, which is achieved in the same way with rein, allows him to de-stress and find some safety in your instruction. So faced with say a scarey motorcycle on a trail ride, a one rein stop, placing his head around into his shoulder reminds him that you have the matter in hand and all he need to is wait it out in his safe place for your next instruction, the worse they can do is circle around for a while but will be unable to take flight, buck or spook to any great extent.

I knew of this technique of course and have done some at times myself but have never had the total package explained to me so well before. It only makes perfect sense to reinforce the technique on ground first and I can not wait to start to work with Rock.

Apart from the Saturday being a total mess with the float being hired to me both unroadworthy and too small, an angle float when I had asked if it was a straight load. Rocky just doesn't fit in a standard angle load. He was squished in and I could not tow him for 1 1/2 hours like that.

I got my money back for the float cost, but forfeited the course fee. Never mind, it is all a learning curve, and I will be more careful next time.

Riding Huelio

These photos are taken with Tony's phone so they are not brilliant but better than nothing as I forgot the camera again.

Huelio is a gorgeous boy to ride, very willing and sure of himself, he takes everything in his

stride and is pretty laid back about it all, been there, done that sort of horse. This is perfect for me and altho I look huge on him I don't think he is concerned at all. For now, short rides around the paddock to get used to him and for him to teach me a thing or two, he responds to leg cues and is just an easy, easy horse to ride. Compared to Rocky anyway. So the plan is for me to gain confidence on Huelio and to continue to work with Rocky. I think between the three of us progress will be made. Rocky already looks to Huelio for everything so learning to be a ridden horse is just another aspect of it.

Visitors today

Huelio and Rocky had some visitors today. Charlotte's boyfriend Luke, his mum (and my friend Debbie) and two of her neice/nephew's came out in the rain to visit.

It stayed dry long h for a quick hallo and to give Huelio a few carrots, and Rocky too of course and I brought Huels up to the shed for a bit of a groom.

This was the first time the kids had come so close to a horse (how does that happen, lol). They like Huelio and he enjoyed the attention.

I also took Boston out to meet the horses and he was pretty unimpressed to say the least had a bit of a bark at them but without hackles up so nothing too serious, Huels just sort of checked him out and wondered what was his problem by the look of this photos. Once off the lead he reverted to his easy going self and didn't even care about the horses. I think he will be fine once he has been around them a few more times.

I told the kids a bit about horses and grooming and keeping them healthy and they gave me a hand to make up the feed. I had got all the gear out for them to have a ride but it just started pouring down with rain so a ride was out. I have asked them back soon as neither have been on a horse and I can lead Huels around with them on him without a problem, Huels is a very relaxed boy and very familiar with his role as a saddle horse, he will take it in his stride I have no doubt.

Huelio pictures finally, sorry for the wait.

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Huelio arrives at Kellyville

No photo's right now, I am waiting to "borrow" back my daughters camera with all my Huelio picks in it so I can update this blog, sorry but come back again soon.


Huelio arrived last Thursday, in the dark and cold and I so desperately wanted to get a photo of him but John the transporter had picked up 3 feral ponies and was running supper late so by the time Huels arrived it was getting on, I was late for work and I literally put Huels in the paddock with Rocky and raced off to work. They remembered each other and went nose to nose in greeting, Rocky did a little buck and happy dance, it was really cute. So I think Rocky is happy at least, Huels is yet to settle in properly.
Very next morning Dad phones to say that he could only find one horse in the paddock and that Rocky was standing at the top end of the paddock looking across to the road. Odd as even if Huels could get out of the bottom paddock the front gate is always closed so what were the chances of him getting down the road, well it seems, pretty good.
Our Friday started with me racing off to Kellyville to locate missing horse. Thankfully he was only about 1/2 kilometer away at a neighbours, penned up and munching away on some lucerne hay. He was not at all perturbed by my ranting and raving at him, and embarassment at having a horse lost on the very first day I got him.
Neighbour was very non chalante about it all so I thanked him took Huelio in borrowed halter, left the car on side of road and walked the naughty boy home, he in the mean time whinneying to all and sundry. LOL
What a peanut, anyway he was happy to see Rocky again and to get a second lot of breakfast the pig.
After some discussion Dad and I decided that Huels had pushed open the top gate at the side of the house, which is a clip lock wire gate, it is for access for the ute when Dad does the paddock clean up and usual rounds of the bottom paddock. It must have not been clipped in correctly and a push from a fat horse was all it took for him to squeeze thru, and squeeze he must have. Rocky wasn't gonna follow tho.
Then we were puzzled as to how the front gate got open, I was pretty sure I had closed it on the way to work the night before, but you know how we do these things automatically, like in our sleep or something and can not say for certain that we actually did it after all??
Turns out that at about 8.30am a bloke rocked up to pick up a trailer, as Dad stores things for the vintage bike club etc, he was parked out side the gate, and the gate was shut. Dad went up and said for him to bring his car inside, and said "By the way, did you happen to see a horse?"
The guy sort of shook his head, went red and changed the subject.
So we are thinking that he did actually open the gate, drove in, leaving the gate open, Huels was out in the top paddock, saw the gate open or being opened and took off. The guy paniced, drove back through, closed that gate and waited. Dad said he was a nervy little bloke so maybe he was worried we would go off at him about it.
So altho we are not 100% sure, we think that is how Huels day went.

Because Dad went off on a bike rally to Tamworth for the weekend, I was designated Mummy minder, so stayed at Kellyville to keep Mum company, we also had my brothers two girls Shay and Lisa, which was fun, they are awesome kids, Lisa loves horses and bikes like me so we get on pretty well and Shay is supper clever in drawing and writing.
So saturday morning I woke up and walked down to the shed to feed the "boys" except only Rocky meandered over from the other side of the house. Hmmmmmm, not again I thought to myself, gave Rock his breaky and a pat and went looking for the trouble maker.
Here he was, halfway thru the barbed wire fence, one foot down on the otherside and another strand across his chest, thank God for his rug. Why the hell do we have barbed wire, well 30 years ago, someone told Dad to put it up 5 fucking strands of it, I hate barbed wire, and we are replacing it all slowly, so as you can imagine I was pretty upset. The particular spot that Huels had tried to walk thru was ok about 5 weeks prior when we first checked on the fences and refenced with regular wire. Yes it was barbed, but in place and secure, except that at some stage in the last 5 weeks, a tree had come down next door, thru the fence and the neighbour had loped off the offending branches over our side, but did not tell us the fence was down. Now maybe this is a fair enough thing as we have not had horses in the paddock for over 30 years but it gave Huels another chance to visit the neighbours, and I have no doubt he would have if he hadn't got hung up.
Well I was on my own, apart from Mum and the girls and as I didn't know what Huels would do I told them to stay at the house. I stepped on the three strands that were up around Huels' knee, pushing them down near his hock, pushed the one strand off his chest with my right hand and bent down and lifted his trapped foot up and down again three times, telling Huels to back up. Well, he is a smart and sensible boy because he took it all in calmly and with out a fuss, he listened to me and repeated my action but as he lifted his foot for the fourth time I pushed back on it and said "Back up". He stepped up and over the wire and not a scratch on him which I was so thankful for.
Then he just calmly walked over to the feed shed for breaky. Oh my, what a horse. LOL. So that weekend Tony and I did a repair job on the broken fence, and worked our way down that side of the paddock, it is about 70% regular wire and star pickets now. The rest of the fencing is regular wire, in fair condition but Huels is testing all areas, he wants out. So I am hoping that when I get home this weekend, I can give him some attention, perhaps a ride and see if I can get him to understand that this is home. After all Rocky really loves it here, he is one very happy pony so I desperately want Huels to feel comfortable too. Any suggestions???

Riding Lesson

I have had a lot of doubts about myself riding at this late stage in my life, 48, overweight and wanting to re-experience the joy of owning and riding my own horse.

Seems it was only a few months ago that I decided to get my motorcycle licence and ride on the road. Having done both these things rather well as a kid, growing up surrounded by bikes, horses, and sundry farm duties, animals and the freedom of miles of fire trails at our back gate, It would all be a breeze for me to just step back into it as tho I hadn't been away from a horse for 30 years. Yer, right!!!

It is no doubt that I had a really wonderful childhood. The fact that these things were provided by my parents and their hard work and hard earned money was not even an issue for me or my siblings.

Providing said activities for myself is both exciting, worrying and hard bloody work. Makes me appreciate just how lucky I was to have parents like mine.

Well, doubts and misgivings aside today I got back up on Rocky with the brilliant instruction of Michelle, who's natural ability with horses and people was well evident.

Rocky was a star, he was calm and level headed a far cry from the last time we rode together.

He behaved well even under my clumsy attempt at mounting. He hung in there and received well earned praise for being a calm and willing boy. Michelle's calm directive had me able to control him without second guessing myself, and starting with basic control, having Rocky moving off and responding to commands with the correct position of hands, legs and body. Soft hands that move with the horse. Clear directives to a green horse from a green rider. Karleigh said we would "learn together" and I think she is right. Based on today's workout we are getting to know each other and with help, work and patients a bright future is on the cards.